Play word 弔い上げ 弔い上げ とむらいあげ last death anniversary for which there is a memorial service held (usu. the 32nd or 49th)
Play word 菩提を弔う 菩提を弔う ぼだいをとむらう to hold a memorial service for the dead, praying for their happiness in the next life by chanting sutras